i think you should go with him, if you do like him, why wouldn’t you? he seems like a good guy, he kept his distance knowing you two were broken up, but still gave you a ride- showing he cares about you. he admitted he wanted to be all over you, so i’d say you should go for it, give it another chance :) all though i don’t know the specifics of why you broke up, from my point of view i don’t see why taking him to homecoming would be a bad thing ! maybe talk to him, ask him how he feels about you and if you’d just want to go to homecoming as friends, or more?

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well you shouldn’t feel guilty first of all, these things are a part of life ! :) as you work your way through the bases you’ll be more comfortable with what you’re used to as long as it’s with a guy you trust. you do not wanna get into anything with a guy who’s going to fuck you over, or use you for sexual pleasure. been there, done that, and it’s not fun :( only do this if you know you’re ready! if you want to date him, get to know him first before you do anything sexual- there’s no substance in a relationship if you have nothing in common. another thing to look out for is a boy who threatens you with your love for him. if you’re not ready, and he says things like “if you loved me you’d do this with me”. that’s not a good guy! just keep doing what you’re doing, and amp up the flirtation a little bit! a smile is the simplest and most effective way of flirting, good luck! hope i helped sweetie:)

well if you’re nervous or scared, it may not be the right time yet. if you’re going to be sexual with anyone, it should be a boy trust or know very well who won’t hurt you. there’s nothing wrong with being prude! society leads us to believe there is, but really it’s beter to wait for a good guy so you don’t get hurt in the end. if you really like this guy, think about it…if he likes you too, there’s nothing to be stiff or nervous about! you already got that out of the way, now just be yourself, be cute and fun, give him a sweet smile and a up-down glance with only the eyes, it shows you’re interested but not desperate ;)

i understand where you’re coming from, you can do anything that you set yourself to do. i’m so sorry for these tragic things that’ve happened to you. there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. i think the key to any addiction is to replace it with something else that’s healthy, and that you like to do. if you need anything or anyone to talk to you can always message me! i know what you mean about the not wanting to go back to school part. i’ve done the same things im ‘not so proud of’ that have gotten the town talking, but the way i see it is- it’s only human to make mistakes. everyone makes them every single day- who are the people in my town to judge ME for doing something wrong? i hold my head up high and tell myself that i am who i am, and there’s gonna be people who are jealous of that, don’t appreciate that, or think they’re better than me. just stand firm in who you are, and surround yourself with people who love you and you can trust.

well the way i see it, if you’re considering going for sam, maybe you don’t like danny as much as you think you should? if danny has a bad temper maybe he’s not the best guy for you as he could hurt you physically or emotionally- but, you know him i don’t. so only you know if he would do such a thing. i think you should talk to danny about this, if you have feelings for sam maybe tell danny about that, or tell him you don’t want a relationship right now and want to take things slow. but if you think you should stay with danny, you could talk to sam about how he’s making you feel uncomfortable by flirting with you. hope i helped a little bit !

so this is my new tumblr, an advice column if you will.

i’d love for people to ask me advice on their issues, i’ve been told my entire life that i’m good with advice.

message me if you need anything ! :)